How to make freinds and get a authority

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Cezary Walenciuk

"Jak zdobyć przyjaciół i autorytet" [PL]

2019-12-11

@walenciukC

I don't have time TL;DR version PLZ ASAP

8 minutes
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how many attention resources you still have?

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1. Be interested in other people

Be interested in other people

How to be friend with a famous person?

  1. Talk ?
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2. Ask about advice. That they will answer with passion

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3. Praise them. People want to feel important

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Be interested ➡️ Give Attention
➡️ Make them feel important

Make it REAL 💓

Help others

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Why it works?

Hormones in your brain :

  1. Endorphin
  2. Cortisol / Kortyzol
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Our unconscious mind constantly analyzes who has what position in the "herd".
What is a "herd" today is difficult to determine

Authority

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How to get that Respect , Authority
Be Alpha-Human. Be Leader. Be THE Chad

How to become a person who is famous for being famous

Trap : Working hard to become someone big in real world and in social media and in the end...

...be alone

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Be interested ➡️ Give Attention
➡️ Make them feel important

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Be interested ➡️ Give Attention
➡️ Make them feel important

🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️
Be interested ➡️ Give Attention
➡️ Make them feel important

🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️
Be interested ➡️ Give Attention
➡️ Make them feel important

I can ...be alone

I asked many people this question :

Why do some people have a strong influencial power over others?

What about authority and respect?

Remember about Demography. Not anywhere people will care who you are and what you are doing

You can't force people to
respect you

But hey you can always
respect yourself

Social Media and how you represent yourself are important but still REAL interaction are the king

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